Friday, November 27, 2015

Blog Post #3


As the novel progresses, it becomes apparent how emotionally immature Mrs. Pontellier truly is. She confuses feelings of lust for love, jealousy for annoyance, and flriting for romance. When Mrs. Pontellier notices Robert's affectionate "puppy manner" towards her friend, she proclaims that she is "glad he had not assumed a similar role toward herself. it would have been unacceptable and annoying" (pg ). Mrs. Pontellier claims to not want the attention of Robert but continued to show signs of jealousy when he ignores her. Mrs. Pontellier believes that what she feels is annoyance when Robert tries to talk to her, when in actuality she enjoys it. She is not in tune with her emotions and has no idea how to decipher what she is truly feeling. 
This meme relates back to The Awakening from a comical standpoint. Though it does not literally represent emotional confusion in the same way as Chopin, it depicts a woman of many mixed emotions. This relates to Mrs. Pontellier because she in not sure what she is feeling at any given moment. However, Mrs. Pontellier does not realize she is wrong about her feelings; the readers pick up on her emotional immatruity but she clearly does not. 
Mrs. Pontellier further demonstartes her lack of intuitive with her own emotions when she allows Robert to rest his head on her shoulder. She said earlier in that novel that she would be annoyed, but contradicts herself by allowing it. Mrs. Pontellier is similar to an immature teenage girl with how drastic her change in emotions is. It shows her lack of exposure and lack of life experience. 

4 comments:

  1. Edna does seem to be naive in love, or with men in general. For example, when Victor kisses Edna's hand, she experiences the playful kiss as "a pleasing sting" (147). Her heart beats faster with the slightest contact from a male. If she understood men or had a lot of experience with men, she would not flutter from every single touch.

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  2. I agree that Edna is naïve in love. In that time period, most marriages weren't based on love. Edna's marriage is no different. If she has never experienced or observed it herself, how can Edna know she is really in love? She could just be so infatuated with Robert - and since infatuation is still somewhat foreign to her - she believes her infatuation is love.

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  3. I agree with the immaturity of the protagonist. Edna claims she misses her kids, yet she basically abondons them. She is relatively young and has little experience with intimacy and therefore does pounce at every man that gives her attention. I do understand it is because of the time period, but it is frustrating to see how badly she wants to be free to do as she wishes when she actually doesn't even know what she wants.

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  4. I agree that Edna acts as a high school girl with a crush! She never thinks out her decisions and let's her emotions take over her when making decisions. Perhaps her behavior is due to the fact she was married early (like many women in the Victoriam Era) and never got to enjoy her teenage years (with crushes and relationships).

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